HELP ME! Who is this stranger in my home?

I don’t know my child anymore. What’s going on? Could it be village people?

S/He was a calm child , loving, caring and all shades of awesome.


>She changed overnight!
>He changed overnight!

I don’t even know him any more!
I don’t know her anymore!

Maybe you have tears in your eyes right or they are dropping already. Awww! A big bear hug.

Worry no more.

I know exactly how you feel.

Being a Psychologist, Certified Family Life Practitioner and a parent for almost 2 decades now. I feel your pain.

That is why I have put this book together.

To help parents who are having tough time navigating the adolescent phase with their kids.

Sometimes I listen to some parent and I practically feel my heart rendering from their pain hence the birth of this book.


It is a practical guide to understanding and connecting with your Adolescents.

In this book you will get practical help on

1.Understanding the brain development of adolescents and its impacts on their behavior
2. Understanding your adolescents uniqueness
3. Adolescents and their sexuality
4. Your adolescent and the internet
5. Emotional and wellbeing
6. Effective communication
7. Positive discipline and adolescents
8. Equip your adolescents with life skill for success.

This book offers a sneak peep into the phases of their lives and their makeup, arming you with information about them and making you better equipped in navigating this phase with them.

Parenting is a journey of continuous learning, unlearning and relearning. There are no quick fix solutions; you just have to be patient and trust the process.

The book goes for 7,500 but you can get if for N5,000 only plus free delivery if you buy in 24 hours








The Parenting Support System online has been of tremendous blessing and indeed support to me. In the group, you are taught all the strings of parenting in simple, easy and practical ways. I enjoyed been in the group as our coach is always attentive and always willing to answer your questions no matter the time or how silly the questions are. Personalizing responses is also a major attraction for me. I always look forward to the teachings, it has been rewarding and fulfilling.
Mrs. Craig Ngozi

Parenting support group for me is a unique group, as it has taught me how to be more intentional about parenting my children. I have learnt that parenting is about the child and not exactly about the parent, and I have come also to understand the power of relationship in parenting, an how to use it in building up my children in the way I want them to grow. Mrs. Ogunkanmi is truly passionate and committed to raising well behaved children who will eventually be responsible adults, their safety, and their overall wellbeing. She has a vision of no child (toddlers to adolescents being left behind), and this reflects in her laudable approach to impacting knowledge, as she goes beyond herself by bringing her wealth of knowledge, and also experts in diverse fields to address parenting issues and generally share such information with members of the support group. As a mother of three, ages 12, 9 and 7, I can say that I have learnt practical tips on making the best relationship between my children and I, and I have gained greater positive influence with them. The parenting lessons are invaluable, an example of which is the No-Yelling Challenge, as well as the engaging posts and weekly to-do tasks she encourages us to have with the children. To sum it up, it’s indeed an honor to be a member of the group and would recommend it to anyone looking for insight on becoming a better parent.
Temitayo Ologun


Oluwatoyin is an advocate for positive parenting.

She helps parents to create a serene family life by teaching and providing them with practical strategies, tools and information to raise well- balanced children and Adolescents.

Oluwatoyin is a Psychologist and a  Certified Family Life Practitioner. She is the founder of Parenting Support System Ltd  an organisation that helps parents to create a serene family life without losing their cool

Oluwatoyin is the convener of  The No Yelling Challenge, Smart Parenting Workshop and  ParentsKonnect, forums where parents get together to discuss issues relating to their parenting journey.

Oluwatoyin is also the author of The Parenting Journal, Smart Parenting, Help! Who is this stranger in my home and also many other e-books?

Oluwatoyin as a certified  Parenting Educator with the USAID Better Parenting Nigeria Curriculum programme has trained over 5000 parents on her online parenting platforms and the groups.

She has been featured on many media platforms like Channels Tv, AIT, RhythmFM, WeFM, ArmedForces Radio, NigeriaInfo Abuja, Vision Fm and also Print media like the Daily Trust.

Oluwatoyin has a passion for teaching and coaching parents to be deliberate in their role and parenting journey.

She is married with 3 great children.